Maybe all the above is just foolish and idle — even retrograde — thinking, in these times when we’re supposed to dispense with gender and sexuality and the rest of it, in the name of pure unbridled anarchy among human desires. Yet I think we often miss the point. Mo…
We’re *not* supposed to dispense with gender and sexuality. We’re just supposed to recognize that one of them is not superior to the other. Vive la différence!
I agree with your points about needing someone who “nurtures” but everything I see tells me most people would still rather that be a man than a woman.