By contrast, the fact that many of the traits society values in boys are actually harmful (to themselves and to others) was unexpected. It’s a new idea that merited the coining of the new term “toxic masculinity”.You make a very good point.101C. L. HamerLinda CarollMar 19, 2019·1 min readThank you. I read something to the effect that no two people read the same book. And I get that, because interpretation weighs heavy. You didn’t just get what I wrote, you summed it up nicely. What a nice feeling that was!