Right? Too many men singing the same song. Crazy bitch. Women are more likely to fault themselves. Should have known better. My own fault.
Here's a radical thought. Do intelligent women make dumb choices? Or do some men know how to hide the worst of that shit until there's a bucket of time and emotions involved?
When I met my ex he was all meditation music and save the planet. A decade later, there's shouting and constant bitching and occasionally objects flying across the room.
Honest truth? Probably some of each. But please, tell me the male equivalent of crazy bitch. And narcissist doesn't count. That's a medical diagnosis.