Right? On top of that, most abuse happens at the hands of a partner or ex-partner. The numbers are dreadful and sad that we’re still there. Honestly, if I was to give advice, here is what I’d say. Listen to your daughters. When they talk to you, stop what you are doing and listen with undivided attention. That’s how children learn that they have value, when we show them they do. Girls who grow up feeling heard and valued have more internal value than girls who felt ignored and unheard.