Oh God, me too, Joni. I bought the book because I’d been stalked and harassed online and I hoped to learn to deal with it better and not be silenced. Because I was. Omg, I was so wishy washy online and that’s not who I am in real life. And it didn’t “teach” me how to deal with it better, but somehow it made me lose patience with it all, which ended up good. One step at a time is we get everywhere, right?