And yet, we can never, never show in any way that we’re aware. Selfies are seen as narcissistic. Posing is seen as vain. If we bravely agree with the compliments (or harassment) men deem to pay us, those compliments are …Why Can Women Only Ever Be Attractive Through the Eyes of Men?1.1K19Zulie RaneLinda CarollMay 18, 2019·1 min readObjectification. Objects aren’t supposed to be aware. They just sit there, oblivious, and let people admire or criticize.