Nope. Women like men that don’t look at housework as women’s work. If you both live in the house, you both take care of it. It’s bigger than housework, incidentally. Men who think housework is women’s work have a lot of other little beliefs that eventually erode the relationship.

Another one is when men think they’re “helping” with the housework. Nope. You can only “help with” something that wasn’t your responsibility in the first place. If you’re “helping her” with the housework, that means you think it was her responsibility in the first place.

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