No, she isn't. You didn't get it. Honestly, you didn't just miss the ball, you're out in left field. She was showing the vast difference in what men and women fear from the opposite gender.

Men are afraid women will laugh at them.

Women are afraid men will kill them.

Not equating.

She was saying, in effect, that the male fear of being laughed at pales by comparison to what women have to fear. And they DO have to fear it. Women get killed for saying no, for God's sakes.