I’m so sorry. I hope your husband gets a clue before it’s too late. Because, this entire article — this is a big part of why women initiate 70% of divorces.
You cook for both of you and he only washes his own dishes? That would be a deal breaker for me. Not because of the dishes, but because of the total lack of consideration.
What’s wrong with one person doing the cooking and the other doing the cleaning? And take turns on who does which.
In too many homes, the woman is the one that “notices” the things that need doing. Video games and television are way more fun than noticing what needs doing.
That’s a societal issue that needs to change. Too many men are used to the woman doing the noticing, whether it’s their mom or (later) their wife.
Not cleaning to make a point isn’t a long term option. Ask me how I know. Living in a mess isn’t a solution.
I hope you apply for the promotion. :)