I'm genuinely curious to know if it's occurred to you that maybe you (somehow) attract women who do those things?

I mean, you can look up the # of people in your age group by state and divide in half. You can't think all those women are the same, right?

The behaviors you describe fit women who are immature or insecure or both. Also, patriarchal princesses, which is a horrible phrase, but fits some women.

Trust me, not all women do those things.