The Virgin-Whore Dichotomy is something that cannot be destroyed by women, because it inside the minds of men. It’s upto them to recognise and destroy it and I believe there are men who have found success in this endeavor, or perhaps there are radical men who never harboured such notions in the first place. It’s an urgent requirement because our bullshit detectors are getting sharpened by the day, and the…
Monsters & Muses
I like this a lot. But to be fair, it’s not a case of men who live in 1955 and women who are waking up. There’s a lot of women looking for breadwinners to take care of them, too.
Add to it men who are financial train-wrecks and want a “strong woman” not as an equal partner but to take care of them.
If people could be honest about what they’re looking for from day 1, that’d be real nice. Too often, that’s not how it rolls.