I know, right? It was a really screwed up post about how women acting "feminine" is toxic. I didn't link to it because I didn't want to send any traffic to it. But that cost me context, I think in hindsight.
I am so sorry that happened to you. Last year I was stalked for months. Stuff like this happens to women way too often.
The good part of this conversation is that I found your writing. Bookmarked a couple to come back to when I'm not supposed to be working. lol.