I don't even know if it's about normal. The older I get the more I think it's about how damn uptight some people are. Like they think there's a certain "way" to inhabit life and it's "their" way and everyone who does life different than them is not normal. But it's not about normal. It's about how uptight and judgmental they are. When I hit 50 I lost all my fucks. There's no rewind and I don't get a replay. Wish I'd figured that out 20 years ago. I'd have worried less about those uptight people with one definition for how life goes.